These are Doc’s Personal Thoughts on this Unfortunate Rift. Wan my Thailand girlfriend had a saying, It’s family shit! And no matter what country you are in, it’s still family shit. And when the stresses get too intense Debbie can’t handle it. It’s my opinion that that’s what caused her to abandon her home and run away. Though it can be lonely at some times, especially during the Christmas holidays, I’m thankful that I do not have any family and am an only child, who never had children of my own. I’ve stumbled my way through life and learned several trades on my own. But I never learned how to properly run a business and have failed several times.
That’s another reason I never had children or a family. My Dad at one time owned and trained Greyhound dogs at St. Petersburg’s Derby Lane. There was a kennel fire that killed his dogs. He was out of business in an instant. From there he drove for Indent cab company. Then when the limo opened he drove the airport shuttle, but soon was laid off because he smoked non-filter cigarettes and developed emphysema of the lungs, and died several years ago. Seeing his lack of education didn’t get him far, and I was walking in his shoes so to speak. I made up my mind I wouldn’t have a family if I couldn’t afford to send my kids to college. I didn’t have any. in my younger days, I dated divorcees with kids and did what I could but I didn’t fit in. That’s one reason I don’t have friends. With what I’ve been through in my life I trust few people. I thought Anthony Torres was a good guy but he stabbed me in the back.
John Williams is another backstabber. I actually lived at Griswold Ranch twice. The first time was before we both got Covid. John Williams was constantly talking nonsense about me to Debbie. He is a two-faced backstabbing sort of guy. After Debbie and I both got Covid I got over it in two weeks. Debbie was feeling sick and went to the hospital for a covid test. The next day the hospital called and said tested positive for C19. She was told to quarantine at home. On the third day of her quarantine, she did not look good. That evening Debbie was having difficulty getting up and going to the bathroom. She looked so bad I told her I was calling 911 to get her to the hospital. Someone in the ER told her she was lucky she got here when she did, otherwise, she would probably be dead in tn the morning.
She spent a week in the ICU and it took several months to regain her food taste. I picked her up at the hospital, and soon afterward she said I don’t want a relationship. The next day I moved back to my little tin can in Clearwater and started cleaning it up. But even though we split up I couldn’t stop thinking about her. We tried our relationship once again after she spent New Year’s Eve at my tin can paradise. At this time we were having lack of funds problems. She had quit her job at the hospital being afraid of getting covid again. Since Wan died I was too since I paid the rent, and she paid the electric and cable bills. We decided we’d try living together again. That was around July 2022. And paid her $500 per month rent. And we got along well. But when she got back from visiting family, she said I’m moving to Crestview in two weeks, and you have to be gone by then said, if you’re not gone in two weeks I’ll have Anthony Torres come up and throw you out. She had never been hostile to me before. She did say she met someone in Crest View while visiting family.
Now let’s talk about her family shit! She moved her brother John Williams back in before she left for Crest View FL. He had been at Debbie’s stepmother’s mooching off of her, and chasing the girl next door. He had lived at Debbie’s place for free for over a decade and never gave her a dime for rent. I always knew Jonn Williams didn’t like me, more like jealous of me. but now that Debbie was gone he became hostile to me. The Sunday I had the blood-mobile fall at Christian Church of the Wildwoods. I always used the rear entrance to the house (mobile home) because the front stairs were too steep and in disrepair. I had shored them up with l-brackets and lag bolts as well as I could. But I still preferred the rear entrance. Well, ole John Boy put this below sign on the rear door. There were a couple of soft spots that have been there for a long time. Debbie and I avoided those areas when walking on the deck. So John Wiliams blocked my use of this entrance. When I left for rehab it was necessary for me to call the paramedics to help me get down the steep front steps.
Now let us go over my experience with Ashley Griswold Torres and Anthony Torres her husband. She is a really exceptional girl, especially with her work ethic getting top reviews, and is well paid for her talents. But on the flip side, it’s my opinion that she is manipulative to her mother. Debbie has Ashley’s cell phone and once had it turned off when Deb would not throw out someone living in her house that Ashley didn’t like or had words with, Deb told me this shortly after we met. She is capable of buying her own phone and paying the bill for it. I remember buying Deb an iPhone XR like mine, but she wouldn’t use the iPhone XR so I sent it back for a refund. Ashly has control over Debs’s bank accounts and has transferred some of moms money into her account. I remember earlier this year Debbie said Ashley took $1,600 out of her account and she was afraid her car insurance auto-payment would bounce. In other words, they piss their money away on fast food, Dunkin Donuts, etc, and when they don’t have enough money to pay their bills they get it from mom’s account. Debbie appears to be intimidated by her own flesh and blood daughter. More family shit.
Anthony Torres is a convicted felon from Harlem NY that has done prison time for drug trafficking. He moved to Florida to get out of the hood and better himself which I believe was a good decision on his part. But he brought the hood and all his dirty laundry down here to Florida. I thought Anthony Torres was a good guy, that is before he stole my tools and other possessions and sold them, which he admitted to doing. He is a pot smoker and drives with his young daughter in his car while being under the influence. Let us pray for their daughter. Traffic is bad enough but being under the influence and driving is illegal and adds to the danger of getting into an accident or killed 😥
He even tried to con me out of my car by saying the government would confiscate it. And offered to let me title it in Ashley’s name to keep the government from taking it. That took balls like a moose to try and pull off. I didn’t just fall off a turnip truck. A (one) motor vehicle of any value is exempt from Medicare and Medicaid asset counting, and so is a person’s home. Good try Anthony! 🙄
And last but least is Angala Bennet, Debbies first born to her first husband. This girl has been a drug addict for most of her adult life. Her husband died from a drug overdose last year. Before Deb and met, Angie was living back at home and stole moms wedding ring and some other stuff. Debbie pressed charges and an arrest warrant was issued. She was picked up in another county and transported back to Hernando County jail. When the judge looked at her record and list of charges he said, this is stupid stuff, you need to grow up. He sentenced her to six months in the county jail. When she got out Debbie and I went to pick her up.
She was living back at home for a short time but the hood was calling her name. This time she got involved with a really bad bunch that was laundering drug money. It was such a bad group of criminals that I am not mentioning her part in the business. Soon not having any respect for the law she was asked to smuggle cocaine into a penal institution and got caught red-handed by the prison’s security cameras handing the cocaine over to her brother, who is doing big time for driving his truck into a bank lobby. So Angie got a three-year minimum mandatory sentence for that stupid stunt. I know one of the reasons Debbie is staying possibly with the family of her last husband is because the prison is an hour away from Crest View is an hour’s drive. She visits her on the weekends. My opinion is, Angie has been an addict for most of her adult life. If she says I am done with this lifestyle. If she were my daughter I’d want her to prove she’s changed before I’d have anything to do with her. But Debbie is a good mom doing what any good mom would for their child.
This is me kissing my Thailand Angel Jareewan Lynch goodbye at her funeral. I thought we would be together forever and grow older. But God had other plans for both of us. I remember Christmas Eve looking at our little Christmas tree with presents under it. I cried all night knowing she would never be home with me again, asking God what I did that was so bad that he took her away from me. I never got the answer but soon met Debbie, and another love entered my life, and another love is gone, and I’m trying to start over but my body is worn out
A word about politics and my opinion. I was born in 1952 and remember new cars. The year of a car could be found by looking at the rear tail-lamps, it was stamped in the lenses. That’s back when Detroit was producing the finest cars in the world. In the early 80s manufacturers were cutting corners and the quality turned to crap. GM who was once known as the mark of excellence turned into the mark of crap! America was soon losing companies due to Bill (Bubba) Clinton’s NAFTA trade agreement, The Japanese cars were invading America and anyone comparing the quality and ride of both American and Japanese cars bought Toyota as a first choice and Datsun was second.
I’m a big fan of Donald Trump. He kept his word and did indeed Make America Great Again! The problem our country is facing now more than ever is the Insiders that are on the take. Many of our congressmen are cleaning up on the stock market. Nasty Nancy Pelosi and her husband made Millions on Pfizer stock. Donald Trump wants to clean D.C. up. The Democrats are so afraid he will win in 2024 that Jack Smith the snake in the grass is making up BS charges to disqualify him from running in the election. It’s a little game they’re playing as the mainstream media runs cover for Joe Biden and his son. There are so many uninformed Americans who rely on the MSM for news that the broadcasters are omitting or lying. I follow many citizen journalists on Twitter. A great news source for those who want news without the spin. My political opinion website is here.
Debby and have a messenger chat thread that’s nearly 5,000 pages long, I know because I exported it to PDF format. Going to dig it out and read it again. My priority will be getting in contact with the Sheriff’s Deputy that called me after someone at 3401 Memory LN called them when I went there to retrieve my possessions. If there are any criminal charges to be found I will pursue them for as long as it takes!
So that’s about it. This family shit is enough for me. And I will always have a love for Debbie, but am no longer in love with her. What happened was the worst experience my life has ever had. With a family like Debbie Williams Griswold’s who needs enemies? Not me that’s for sure. I’ve given a hundred percent and then some when in a relationship. My destiny looks to be alone, and when I,m gone to heaven nobody will miss me. That’s my life!